African Youth possess immense potential and resilience in themselves which make them distinct and powerful, however, this same category of people make a common mistake which is detrimental to who they are.
In this generation and digital age we are in, the urge to compare oneself to others is very high, as a result of what social media has shown us. We get to watch different personalities and content, doing many things across the world right in our palms. Imagine watching someone of your age on social media flaunting his luxury assets, his achievements, and what he or she has amassed. Instead of that being a motivation for African Youth to go after their dreams too, many end up comparing themselves to those people probably because they are of the same age or they came from the same background which later ends up in regret and depression.
The effect of comparison among African Youth can be so disastrous which can lead to unstable mental health, low self-esteem, depression, suicide, and many more. As a result of this, every African youth must know who they are and navigate their unique ways to success.
One of the most prevalent consequences of comparison among African youth is a sense of incapability and low self-esteem. Constantly measuring oneself against unattainable standards set by social media influencers and celebrities can bring about self-doubt. Often, the celebrities you compare yourself with are just showcasing unrealistic success and happiness just to attract people. So if you are doing something legit, it might take time but don’t quit and feel you are not doing enough because of someone’s big achievement you just saw. Be consistent and diligent with what you are doing. Do you get that?
Also, the culture of comparison can encourage a mindset of competition among African youth, instead of collaboration and support. In a society where opportunities for education, employment, and advancement may be limited, youth may view their peers as rivals rather than supporters. This competitive mindset can prevent cooperation and collective progress, as individuals prioritize personal gain over the common good. Instead of celebrating each other’s successes and lifting each other, African youth may give in to envy, hatred, and bitterness toward one another.
In addition, the act of comparison often leads to misplaced priorities and a lack of genuineness among African youth. In their pursuit of external validation and approval as a result of Western ideas and media portrayals, young people may prioritize superficial markers of success, such as material possessions, social status, or physical appearance, over values such as integrity, empathy, resilience, and personal growth.
What is the way out?
To overcome the trap of comparison, African youth must cultivate a mindset of self-awareness, gratitude, integrity, and resilience. Instead of comparing themselves, African youth should focus on their personal growth and journey toward self-actualization. This requires embracing one’s imperfections and failures as opportunities for learning and growth. By developing a strong sense of identity and self-worth, African youth can shield themselves against the negative effects of comparison and lead fulfilling and authentic lives.
Moreover, encouraging fostering a culture of collaboration, mentorship, and support is essential for averting the harmful effects of comparison among African youth. By celebrating each other’s successes, sharing resources, and uplifting marginalized voices, young people can create a more inclusive and equitable society where everyone has the opportunity to thrive. Investing in education, skills development, and mental health support services is also crucial for equipping young people with the tools and resilience they need to navigate the challenges of comparison in the digital age.
Embracing one’s unique identity and celebrating the diversity of experiences and talents within African communities is essential for building a more inclusive and vibrant future for generations to come.
Author: Tolulope Olugbade
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